Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Be Slow to anger.
Be slow to anger, the key to success.
I begin to wonder about how morals will survive in today's business world.
Anyway, its kind of fucked up that you get scolded by other people who asks you to help them. How can you go around scolding the person that your asking for assistance? Come on, your the one thats being the fucked up one. I dont gain anything from helping you, so why should i help out? Because your my friend thats why. However you go around fucking everyone that screws up so little and begin to throw your temper when things dont go your way.
To even think that i was going to help you find a external itp source.
It all begins when i mentioned that i may have the chance to go overseas for itp. You asked if you i could help you ask the company about employing other people and i agreed. You then mentioned your 1st Plan that you were going to take to the people around before you heard of my plan. Then when someone asks me about all this itp stuff like whos going and shit, i just said that you may not be on the 1st Plan but going on an alternate plan.
Thats all there is to it. And so the guy flips out, throws his temper like the world owes him a living and doesnt have the common sense to think things through before executing them.
I agree that im partly to blame for revealing your 'secret' which you proudly explained to a group of people earlier on to day, but i dont agree that your are not to blame too. FOR FUCKS SAKE im the one thats going to help you and i dont gain anything through helping you. The simple reason i want to help its because i want to help friends.
Now if i didnt say anything about my itp, then i get to go overseas im pretty sure you would be complaining that i didnt share it and all that shit. 2 Words - Complain box. Go reflect. In my opinion both parties are wrong, but i sure didnt make a scene out of it. People asks questions and what am i supposed to do, lie? As your approach to me was a public one, who the hell knows its a 'secret'. Come out how old are we already, throwing tantrums? Im sure there are better ways to resolve this amiably. Each time shit like this happens i always take a step back and put my hand out to you offering an apology. Just because i treat friends as friends and want to resolve matters quick, doesnt mean i have no limit.
Not this time. Theres a limit to everything.
Now thats off my chest. I dont like to confide things in people, thats my nature. Thats why i use blogger to express my feelings instead. Whether people read it or not its their business, its the only source of output for me. I believe in doing things 光明正大 (Doing things openly), because im not doing anything wrong, so why be afraid of it? Unless someone specificaly requests me not to with a reason then sure by all means.
Heres the update everyone was waiting. Not quite what i had in mind but then..
Anyhoo, schools out, a short vacation for the hard working students. Good work to my FYP team, now to start work on phase 2.
I aint in any mood to update much now, because of that shit. So ill just stop here. Later.
I begin to wonder about how morals will survive in today's business world.
Anyway, its kind of fucked up that you get scolded by other people who asks you to help them. How can you go around scolding the person that your asking for assistance? Come on, your the one thats being the fucked up one. I dont gain anything from helping you, so why should i help out? Because your my friend thats why. However you go around fucking everyone that screws up so little and begin to throw your temper when things dont go your way.
To even think that i was going to help you find a external itp source.
It all begins when i mentioned that i may have the chance to go overseas for itp. You asked if you i could help you ask the company about employing other people and i agreed. You then mentioned your 1st Plan that you were going to take to the people around before you heard of my plan. Then when someone asks me about all this itp stuff like whos going and shit, i just said that you may not be on the 1st Plan but going on an alternate plan.
Thats all there is to it. And so the guy flips out, throws his temper like the world owes him a living and doesnt have the common sense to think things through before executing them.
I agree that im partly to blame for revealing your 'secret' which you proudly explained to a group of people earlier on to day, but i dont agree that your are not to blame too. FOR FUCKS SAKE im the one thats going to help you and i dont gain anything through helping you. The simple reason i want to help its because i want to help friends.
Now if i didnt say anything about my itp, then i get to go overseas im pretty sure you would be complaining that i didnt share it and all that shit. 2 Words - Complain box. Go reflect. In my opinion both parties are wrong, but i sure didnt make a scene out of it. People asks questions and what am i supposed to do, lie? As your approach to me was a public one, who the hell knows its a 'secret'. Come out how old are we already, throwing tantrums? Im sure there are better ways to resolve this amiably. Each time shit like this happens i always take a step back and put my hand out to you offering an apology. Just because i treat friends as friends and want to resolve matters quick, doesnt mean i have no limit.
Not this time. Theres a limit to everything.
Now thats off my chest. I dont like to confide things in people, thats my nature. Thats why i use blogger to express my feelings instead. Whether people read it or not its their business, its the only source of output for me. I believe in doing things 光明正大 (Doing things openly), because im not doing anything wrong, so why be afraid of it? Unless someone specificaly requests me not to with a reason then sure by all means.
Heres the update everyone was waiting. Not quite what i had in mind but then..
Anyhoo, schools out, a short vacation for the hard working students. Good work to my FYP team, now to start work on phase 2.
I aint in any mood to update much now, because of that shit. So ill just stop here. Later.
